Fatherhood is a high calling that must be carried out intentionally and diligently. God is the Caller and the greatest example of fatherhood. If we call Him our Heavenly Father, then we must understand that fatherhood goes far beyond sperm donation. God is a Father who gives both His presence …
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Happy Father’s Day
Dear Father, You are FIRST your children’s spiritual head before anything else therefore FOLLOW Christ passionately as they follow you and ensure that every child in your home has a personal relationship with God. Always AFFIRM your children, APPRECIATE their personalities because they are looking up to your mentorship and …
Read More »The Intentional Parenting Conference 7.0
Welcome to The Intentional Parenting Conference 7.0 – Parenting is a Ministry! My Dear Intentional Parent, I am sure when you hear the word Ministry you are thinking “Church” or “Religion”, right? Well, not quite. A Ministry is an assignment, a responsibility and could be a life mission. Do you …
Read More »Letter to my child…You are made for more!
Dear Sonshine, How are you coping with this new stage of life? I am happy about the building project you have just started. This indeed is a great achievement! Your mum and I are super grateful to God for this. However, I will like to encourage you with a few …
Read More »5 key things I need to know as my children resume school this new year
As parents, we often wish to have our children 24/7. Yes I know some of us will say we can’t wait for resumption but we know deep down that we want them on our watch regularly. This is why we are anxious for the school to have CCTV and also …
Read More »THE INTENTIONAL PARENTING CONFERENCE 3.0
We understand that nothing becomes dynamic until it has become been specific. Therefore, the Parenting conference aims to remind ourselves of our responsibilities as parents, share insights into balancing our numerous roles and develop cogent strategies for building solid family and societal values – all in specific and practical terms. …
Read More »Marriage and Children – The 12 Commandments
As a man, you are first a husband/lover before you become a father. Likewise as a woman, I am first a wife/lover before stepping into the motherhood business. Moreover, I have discovered that these two roles, or let me say these two titles somehow (marriage and parenting) affect, infect and …
Read More »7 Essential Tips for a Smooth Fatherhood Ride
“Fatherhood is a journey for the machos” Am I right? I guess I am completely wrong, it is definitely not. So what is it? I can’t really say but one thing I am sure of is that it requires patience or let me say long suffering and a lot of …
Read More »Sperm Donors versus Real Fathers. Fathers’ Day Edition
Any boy can be a man Any man can get married Any married man can be a sperm donor But not all donors are fathers Children answer the last names of sperm donors but live in the legacy of real fathers The present and future of each child is important …
Read More »The baby’s mind 2: In the womb
This place is cool and cozy With an unlimited supply of resources Always at my call…or before I even call No lack, no pain,no tears,no stress Nothing at all to worry or think about So warm and comfortable, so homely In fact no word can fully describe the pleasure I’m …
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